Iaconetti, who met husband Jared Haibon on Bachelor in Paradise season 2 in 2015 and married him in August 2019, reflected on how motherhood has shifted her perspective. With sons Dawson (4) and Hayden (about 1½), she acknowledged she can’t carry everything alone and feels calmer, less reactive than in her Bachelor Nation days.
She also shared a candid parenting detail: while Jared visited a friend in a Boston hospital, Ashley took the boys to the aquarium and used a toddler leash — noting safety over shame and that Dawson even has an AirTag to keep tabs on him.